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This site logs the experiences of one parent and my quest to reclaim my daughter's imagination after it was hijacked by Disney Princesses.
Contact: mfinuc@gmail.com
I began this blog in April 2010. It was meant to be a 90 day run at recovery. From Disney Princesses.
It's been over 4 years since I first googled "Why the hale are Disney Princesses everywhere?" I found a lot of advertisements for Disney World. And a definition of hale (strong and healthy).
I started writing here and found all sorts of people were asking the same question. Minus hale.
My kid is over the Disney Princesses, but I am into all the stuff I've learned while taking notes and exploring. Now I post whatever catches my mind about: marketing to children, girls, and occasionally squirrels.
Whether these moms like it or not, pole dancing has a serious cultural association -- hell, it's practically inseparable from the idea of "women are objects for men's enjoyment".
ReplyDeleteBeing in denial about that will not benefit their daughters in the long run.
Also, it kinda made me sick when the mom in the story started talking about her daughter's "little abs". Kids don't need to reduce themselves to parts. They need to love themselves as a whole person.
Hell, we all do.
I swear, this reads like something from The Onion. Kids can't take "Exotic Dance" and "Lap Dance," but they can take "Bellylicious," "Sexy Flexy," "Pussycat Dawls" and "Promiscuous Girls"? You have got to be kidding me.
ReplyDeleteAnd that mother talking about her 7-year-old's "rockin' abs" is skin-crawling creepy. Child-protective-services creepy.
The thing is, the parents who would let their daughters take these classes are so caught up in vanity and vicarious living that they cannot be persuaded of the dangers. It's like the parents who defended their daughters' dirty dancing to "Single Ladies." It seems so obvious (SO obvious) that this is so wrong, yet I fear there's just no turning back on this stuff. And that is incredibly sad.
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ReplyDeleteyeah, this is just over the top. there is just some plain old bad parenting going on here. i can say, without hesitation, that any mother who lets her daughter take pole dancing lessons is a bad mother. it takes a lot for me to say someone is a bad mother. this is abuse in my opinion.
ReplyDeleteBlink. Blink. Whaaat?
ReplyDeleteWell, if it gives a 7-yr-old rockin' abs, must be worth it! Now that she's got rockin' abs, she can go get that dangly belly button ring put in. C'mon kids, get with the program! Life is short!
I can't imagine why any mother wouldn't think this is a good idea. I mean, think of all the jobs one could have if you start your pole-work early on in life!
Ummm, oh wait, hmmmm.